Am I this person because of the things I do? Or do I do these things because I am this person.?

Ever found yourself thinking about someone you know you have no future with, but you do it anyway??

Have you ever wondered why some people smile all the time? As if nothing is wrong with their lives! Then you find out that is nothing further from the truth… And you wonder how do they do it? How do they manage to stay positive all the time???

Why is it that men make more of an effort to please their women when they are afraid of being dumped? And the moment they know they got her in their hooks, they relax and do nothing from what they used to do?! 

In this world we live in, we have a choice to be selfish or selfless, loving or envious, givers or takers; happy or miserable. What do you choose?

Did you know that some statistics are showing women retiring with $70,000 less than men?

Did you know that there are 5 stages in overcoming a bad habit??

The 5 stages are:
Pre-contemplation of habit
Contemplation
Confronting
Overcoming
Maintaining

What’s your bad habit?

Would you sacrifice your own happiness if it means making someone else happy? 

Many times you thought your life sucks and you hate being alive and you think, wouldn’t  it be better if I didn’t exist – then something or someone comes your way and shows you otherwise. Has that ever happened to you? How can you deny God’s presence in your life then?? Isn’t it time to let go of those negative depressing thoughts and start living again? Ask yourself!

A new year has come, a new start, a new chance to get it right. Are you on that page? If not, why aren’t you?

How many times you catch yourself saying: “But it’s different this time” then you realize, you have said that many times before and it’s still the same.

If you could go back to high school and redo it all over – what would you do differently? or would you change anything at all?

Have you ever found yourself wondering what your life would be like if you haven’t met your past partners?

How can you stay in love with someone knowing; the day will come, and it will all be over?

When you feel down, what do you do? Lock yourself up or talk to someone? Does it help? Are you following your first instinct or second guessing yourself?