Wouldn’t it be better to get a divorce if you tried all you can to make it work? YOU actually think that it is better not to – for the sake of the children? Don’t you think it is the other way around? Wouldn’t it be healthier for both of YOU and your CHILDREN? Don’t you think it will help you become better parents if you separated? Why do you do this to yourself? What are you afraid of? Whose voice are you listening to? What does your inner voice tell you? Why do you care about other people’s opinions? Who matters here? Take the time and reflect. Follow your heart!
Why do we allow ourselves to get disappointed over and over again by the same people who never lived up to our expectation since the beginning? Why we put pressure on them to be someone they are not? and why do we torture ourselves expecting different result every time? Is the problem truly with who they are? Or is it in how you are wishing they could be?
Ever wonder why the friends you attract in your life seem to have similar issues like you? You think it’s coincidence or luck? Think again.
Have you ever wondered what would happen to your life if you just didn’t comply to all the nonsense rules that society forces upon you? What if you just break free from it all? What would that feel like? Do you wonder?
Whenever you pray to God; you are asking for help; guidance; for a sign. You think that you will get your answer in the next couple of hours or days. Don’t you? But then, time passes and the answer comes in an unexpected way and unexpected time. Because GOD Doesn’t work on your schedule, GOD has his own time table. The sooner you accept this, the better you will feel. Just a thought.
How much control does the big boss really have? How much can he really do? Does he even get to know all the right facts? Or is he making decisions based on what he is told? Makes you wonder who is really in power? The boss or the small guy or the middle man?? I wonder.
Have you ever wondered how nice it would be to trade lives with someone else? Then you think about it and realize. You wouldn’t trade your own life with anyone. You want it just the way it is. Even if it’s f**** up.
Ever notice a couple’s behavior with regards to social media in the beginning of their relationship versus a year later. Things change don’t they? What happened to the spark? or did they just realize better to keep their life private!!
There are people who don’t say sorry and you wish you could hear them say it. And there are those who say too much sorry that you wish they would not say it. Cause those who never say it makes you feel that they are not acknowledging your feelings. And those with too much sorry makes you feel it’s just a word they keep repeating to get themselves out of a situation. So it’s never really about you or your feelings. They are both bad. Actually they are both worse from one another.
Did you ever reach to a point in your life where you just wanted to disappear from where you are, people you know and just go somewhere else and start a brand new life?
Isn’t it funny, we are so quick to judge and tell the person infront of us: “you changed”, that’s when you get the answer: “so have you”. You catch yourself defending saying: “well, you didn’t expect me to stay the same forever!?!”
So why don’t we accept that others will change too!!!
Why are we always quick to point out faults and changes in other people but we don’t see or admit our own! Just a thought.
You know how we say: “listening to other people’s problems makes yours not so bad after all”. Well, while other people’s issues may be worse than yours, how does that make your issues any better?! It’s not like it disappears. You still have to deal with it. Just saying.
Ever wonder if you are following your true calling or the calling you convinced yourself with!!
What if your girl/ boyfriend comes to you one day and says: “I love you, but I want you to know I was unfaithful to you just once”. Would you forgive her/him. Can you get over it? Does their honesty mean something to you? Or is it better that you never knew!!