Just a thought

What would you do if you found out your partner has been cheating on you?

For me – I can tell you that I already know how that feels. The feeling of betrayal. The feeling of disbelief. Anger and hurt are not the only emotions that will overpower you. You may start questioning your whole relationship, the sincerity of the love and your capability of making a good judgement.

One of the first things you will accuse yourself of, is being so stupid. “How did I not see this?” you will ask yourself. “Why did my partner do this?” will be the next question you need answers to. “Was I not enough for you?” is what you would really like to know.

Your self-doubt will cripple your thinking. Your second-guessing of their love for you will drive you crazy. These are all natural emotions we feel when we are shocked. But when the shock wears off, and when you gain some strength, you will learn the lesson you needed to learn through this painful experience, that yes – you didn’t deserve. But it happened.

So learn what was necessary for you to learn and you will be okay. The best thing for you is to turn the painful experience into a valuable lesson and carry on your journey.

How would you handle this? What would you do?

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Book: Heartfelt Inspirations – Joy and Happiness BY Herve Desbois

The cream of enjoyment in this life is always impromptu. The chance walk; the unexpected visit; the unpremeditated journey; the unsought conversation or acquaintance.

Fanny Fern

Decision Time

Every day we face making decisions, some are insignificant, some serious while others; detrimental. Indeed, there is a wide spectrum of decisions that we ultimately make throughout our lives. Each one has the potential to change the course of our lives. While some, we give too much importance to unnecessarily. In this life, we learn ever so patiently when to take things seriously and when to lighten up. Continue reading

Just a thought

If you were to be truly honest with yourself right now – how many people in your life that you can say: “I depend on them and I know they will be there for me – thick and thin!”

For me – I used to think that it is important to have people in your life, whether family members or close friends, to depend on when necessary. This need or desire if you want to call it – led to creating expectations – which in turn resulted into big disappointments.

As life taught me various lessons, this one lesson I learned and I am so grateful that I did. I do not need to depend on anyone. I do not need to expect anything from anyone at any time. Sure, there are people that are near to my heart. Sure, there are those who have proven to me that I can count on them when I am in need. However, I will no longer ever confuse this with having an expectation from them.

I depend on myself first and foremost. I will ask for help when I need it. I may not get the help from those I ask. The universe will always send me the right person for the situation at hand. This I know with all my being.

How do you feel about this? Do you place expectations on certain people in your life? Have you been disappointed? What have you learned when you were let down? Are you feeling bitter? Betrayed? Do you think it was realistic – having those expectations? Better yet – why do you feel justified in having those expectations? What can you let go of now?

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Book: Heartfelt Inspirations – Joy and Happiness BY Herve Desbois

Dreams, dreams, and more dreams. They say they are the seeds of Life. I believe it. And those who don’t believe it, or who have stopped believing it may be a little dead already.

Herve Desbois

What is so special about you?

 

Think about that question for a few seconds and notice the thoughts that come to the surface. “What’s so special about you?

After you have given it some thought, continue reading. I apologize in advance for the tone of this article. I am allowed to rant from time to time. I have my personal reasons. Continue reading