Wouldn’t it be better to get a divorce if you tried all you can to make it work? YOU actually think that it is better not to – for the sake of the children? Don’t you think it is the other way around? Wouldn’t it be healthier for both of YOU and your CHILDREN? Don’t you think it will help you become better parents if you separated? Why do you do this to yourself? What are you afraid of? Whose voice are you listening to? What does your inner voice tell you? Why do you care about other people’s opinions? Who matters here? Take the time and reflect.  Follow your heart!