Food for thought (92)

Wouldn’t it be better to get a divorce if you tried all you can to make it work? YOU actually think that it is better not to – for the sake of the children? Don’t you think it is the other way around? Wouldn’t it be healthier for both of YOU and your CHILDREN? Don’t you think it will help you become better parents if you separated? Why do you do this to yourself? What are you afraid of? Whose voice are you listening to? What does your inner voice tell you? Why do you care about other people’s opinions? Who matters here? Take the time and reflect.  Follow your heart!

Where is your focus?

I ask where is your focus. Do you even know? At times you think you are so sure of where you are heading. You think you got your priorities in order. You know what needs to be done and follow some sort of a plan. Then a series of events take place and you are thrown of course for a while. you get distracted and suddenly you find yourself all lost and confused. Where were you going again? And why? And how?  All kinds of questions arise and you realize that you were never really focused. You were all over the place from the start. And the circumstances simply woke you up and helped you see the reality that you were blinded to.  Continue reading

Quote

Author: George Bernard Shaw

Book: Man and Superman

Year: 1903

Quote: “The reasonable man adapts himself to the world: the unreasonable one persists in trying to adapt the world to himself. Therefore all progress depends on the unreasonable man.”

Book Quote #9

Food for thought (91)

Why do we allow ourselves to get disappointed over and over again by the same people who never lived up to our expectation since the beginning? Why we put pressure on them to be someone they are not? and why do we torture ourselves expecting different result every time? Is the problem truly with who they are? Or is it in how you are wishing they could be?

Not Ready to Listen

What can you really do when the person you are talking to is not ready to listen. How frustrating this can be. You explain and you simplify and you express yourself in different ways and you pour your heart out, with no result. It’s like you are talking to a wall. Hell, by now the wall would have talked after all this effort. So why is this happening? Continue reading