I ask where is your focus. Do you even know? At times you think you are so sure of where you are heading. You think you got your priorities in order. You know what needs to be done and follow some sort of a plan. Then a series of events take place and you are thrown of course for a while. you get distracted and suddenly you find yourself all lost and confused. Where were you going again? And why? And how? All kinds of questions arise and you realize that you were never really focused. You were all over the place from the start. And the circumstances simply woke you up and helped you see the reality that you were blinded to. Continue reading
How many times you caught yourself saying: “Damn! I wish I said that or didn’t say that. Or I wish I did that or didn’t do that.” … “I wish I figured this out sooner, I wish I walked away earlier, I wish I knew what I know now ages ago, I wish I could go back and change things, If only I was that person back then … Etc.” but you didn’t know, and you weren’t that person and no you can’t go back. That’s just the way it is. Continue reading
I have had several conversations about how to differentiate between loving someone and being in love with someone. Some people think it’s the same thing. That you must be in love if you love the person. That is not necessarily true. You can love someone but not be in love with them. Nonetheless, Continue reading
Have you ever had one of those moments where you look back at a relationship that ended and it just hits you all of a sudden, this relationship was doomed from the beginning. This relationship was over from before it even began.