The “ASSUME” Lesson

It is better to get your facts straight than to reach your own conclusion.  It may save you from a lot of disappointment in the long run.  We all fall in the trap of assuming things and coming up with our own explanations in order to complete the whole picture in our minds.  We need answers to our queries and when it is not given to us, we just find our own way of understanding things, and so, we assume. Continue reading

What you bring out in me …

Certain friends bring out certain sides of me. Certain family members bring out other sides of me. People in general, they all bring out different sides of me. It all depends on the way they treat you and behave around you. It also depends on your susceptibility to get influenced and affected by your surroundings. Continue reading

The “COMPARISONS” Lesson Part 2

Previously, I emphasized on comparing ourselves to others around us and how we allow our surroundings to affect us.  Now I want to focus on another type of comparisons we encounter in our lives.  We all do it. Sometimes even without realizing. It may be beneficial at times but most times, it doesn’t help us one bit. Continue reading