What’s in it for me?

Let us not dare to deny that we do things in our day-to-day life without thinking of how it affects us. ‘What’s in it for me’ is an underlying thought that we may or may not be aware of, but it happens, constantly.  Very few people don’t have these thoughts on a regular basis, but from time to time they will stop to think about the decisions they take and how it affects them.  So in the end, no one escapes this thought. It happens to each and every one of us, whether we want to admit it or not, whether we recognize it or not.  The recurrence and the intensity of this thought is what differentiates one person from the next. It’s the fine line between being selfish and plainly looking out for yourself.

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Relationship Loss

For the first time I am giving you a tour inside my heart – or should I say ‘broken-heart’.  I am sure everyone on this planet can relate to relationship loss.  We have all lost someone or something at some point in our lives.  On the other hand we have all gained someone or something. There is a give and take in relationships – you win some, you lose some … There are a variety of relationships to begin with and each one of them have a special place in our hearts thus affecting us differently. Every person in your life that you interact with on some level, you actually have a relationship with, as little as it can be. Continue reading