Tag Archives: lessons

Oct 7 2025

She Reclaimed Her Life – You Can Too

She reclaimed her life – you can too

A story about a woman in her mid-sixties who endured a little over 20 years with a Narcissistic neurodivergent borderline ADHD

Join me in congratulating her for her strength, perseverance, resilience, wisdom, patience, and determination to slip from this toxic relationship, renew her environment, refresh her energy, reclaim her life and start over. 

She starts over, not from a place of weakness. Not from a victim state. Rather, an empowered state. 

If you knew half of what she had to deal with all these years. Especially Continue reading →

Jul 7 2025

I believe in what I teach

I am here surrounded by people poking through my sovereignty and choice of being who I am. By circumstances; challenging, unbearable yet sweetly educational. By a state of being; unpleasant, at times shaky yet absolutely transformational. I stand here with so much inner strength and a zest for living a joyful and meaningful life. I am choosing to be open, vulnerable and transparent. I am choosing to share the biggest falls, the darkest secrets, the most private moments of my life. While I believe that in doing so, I am aligned with my purpose, living my dharma, fulfilling what my soul came here to do.

I am not ashamed sharing parts of my life or my whole life story for that matter. I am not afraid of Continue reading →

Apr 7 2024

Have you learned the lesson?

Since we were born, we were conditioned to believe that not everything we want we will get. Just because you want it now, doesn’t mean it will happen now. Just because you planned it this way, it will end up working out that way. We learned through life that we must wait. We learned to be patient. We learned that some things are out of our control. We learned that we must live in acceptance and gratitude. With time and experience, we learn all these lessons and much more. Some of us though, may never learn. Continue reading →

Feb 7 2024

Excuses or Reasons?

I couldn’t do this because…  I didn’t call you because… I am late because… I didn’t tell you because… It wasn’t me who did… etc.

The gazillion excuses we come up with to justify a wrongdoing or a failure in ourselves. It’s easier for us to find an excuse, a strong one; that would get us off the hook, or we try anyway. The excuses we convince others with, in turn, translate to Continue reading →

Apr 7 2023

Learning to ask for help

I am an individual who had a hard time asking for help and receiving in general. It’s been a lifelong challenge and mission to improve. I struggled for most of my adult life asking anyone for help unless it was a dire need. I was adamant on being self-sufficient and totally independent even if I had to suffer. I couldn’t see past my need to take care of myself and to never need anyone or depend on anyone. There are reasons for this Continue reading →

Dec 31 2016

NEW YEAR Special Edition

The end of the year is very near. And here we are reflecting back on the year that passed. Most of us will be saying the same thing:”I just want this year to finish and hope next year will be better”. While there is nothing wrong in wishing for a better year ahead with better luck and better life and to finally have the happiness we have been searching for since forever, isn’t it fair to give thanks to all that has happened in the year that passed. How many of us actually do that? Continue reading →