It is not about the SNAKE but the POISON

“Imagine being bitten by a snake and instead of focusing on healing and recovering from the poison, you are consumed with finding the snake to explain why it hurt you and to prove that you didn’t deserve it. This isn’t about the snake 🐍Posted by Rob Butler – source unknown

Inspired by this quote I would like to share some thoughts.

I get it. I know what it feels like when you have been treated like crap, to put it mildly. It’s unfathomable, unexplainable, inexcusable, and unforgivable. The lengths these people had gone to destroy you is something you cannot Continue reading

The Narcissist Boss Trap

At some point in your life, you experienced a Narcissistic Boss of some sort. If you are one of the lucky ones who didn’t have the pleasure of meeting one, consider yourself truly blessed. Generally, I can presume that you encountered one in some form or another. Continue reading

Second Chances Revealed

Do you believe in second chances? Or is there a limit on how many chances we get to do something over? Better yet, how many chances are you comfortable giving to the same person who hurt you? Do you apply the same theory of ‘second chance’ towards others as you would for yourself? Have you been given a second chance at something then lost it again? Have you given a second and third chance for someone to do better but ended up letting you down? When do you say: “enough is enough – no more chances?” Continue reading