It is not about the SNAKE but the POISON

“Imagine being bitten by a snake and instead of focusing on healing and recovering from the poison, you are consumed with finding the snake to explain why it hurt you and to prove that you didn’t deserve it. This isn’t about the snake 🐍Posted by Rob Butler – source unknown

Inspired by this quote I would like to share some thoughts.

I get it. I know what it feels like when you have been treated like crap, to put it mildly. It’s unfathomable, unexplainable, inexcusable, and unforgivable. The lengths these people had gone to destroy you is something you cannot Continue reading

Excuses or Reasons?

I couldn’t do this because…  I didn’t call you because… I am late because… I didn’t tell you because… It wasn’t me who did… etc.

The gazillion excuses we come up with to justify a wrongdoing or a failure in ourselves. It’s easier for us to find an excuse, a strong one; that would get us off the hook, or we try anyway. The excuses we convince others with, in turn, translate to Continue reading