Ever found yourself in the middle of a broken relationship where you are the observer of both parties? You find yourself struggling to stay objective. You can’t take sides. You want to help and it can be really challenging at times. It’s not about you helping them save their relationship. It’s not about what Continue reading
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Excuses or Reasons?
I couldn’t do this because… I didn’t call you because… I am late because… I didn’t tell you because… It wasn’t me who did… etc.
The gazillion excuses we come up with to justify a wrongdoing or a failure in ourselves. It’s easier for us to find an excuse, a strong one; that would get us off the hook, or we try anyway. The excuses we convince others with, in turn, translate to Continue reading
We blame ourselves too much
How many times you caught yourself saying: “Damn! I wish I said that or didn’t say that. Or I wish I did that or didn’t do that.” … “I wish I figured this out sooner, I wish I walked away earlier, I wish I knew what I know now ages ago, I wish I could go back and change things, If only I was that person back then … Etc.” but you didn’t know, and you weren’t that person and no you can’t go back. That’s just the way it is. Continue reading
Same Same but Different
Thoughts many of us experience at some point or another in our crazy life. Some of us allow our thoughts to grow and some suppress it and hide away from it. We are all living on the same planet, yet it seems that each individual is living in their own world. We all look alike with Continue reading
The “NEVER” Lesson
How many times have we heard the saying ‘Never say Never’ and how many times have we said: “I will never …. ” And let us now count, out of all the times we said ‘never’, how many of them we actually ended up doing or feeling or experiencing whatever it is we said NEVER to. Continue reading
Disappointments
How many times in our lives have we felt disappointed? Why do we experience this feeling often? Is there anything we can do to lower our disappointments?
These are some of the questions I ask myself from time to time. Usually it is when I get disappointed, Continue reading
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